Eliza got a 2000 piece jigsaw puzzle for our family to do. It’s huge – it takes up half of our dining room table. We were working on it every day for while, but it’s hard, and we’’ve slacked off.  One reason that it’s hard is that some pieces seem to fit together, only to figure out later that they don’t – the better match is somewhere else.  So we take a piece out and put the real one in place. Sometimes we do this in life – we realize our actions and behaviors aren’t genuine or the best we …